Marriage Books
In the beginning of 2009 I started reading a lot of marriage and relationship books. This is a list of books I have read that I found helpful and would recommend to others. I list them in the order of usefulness.

• For Couples Only by Jeff Feldhahn, Shaunti Feldhahn
  This is a box set of two books, "For Men Only" and "For Women Only". Small, easy to read and to the point. Read the book for you and perhaps review the book for your spouse to point out what may not be applicable to you.
  ISBN-10: 1601422482
  ISBN-13: 978-1601422484
  
  
• The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
  Easy to read and can be quite an eye-opener.
  ISBN-10: 1881273156
  ISBN-13: 978-1881273158
  
  
• The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman
  More serious and in-depth but with excellent insights and suggestions. Understanding some of the principles in this book helped to bring the number of serious conversations between Catherine and I that ended with little result and a lot of frustration from about 50% to less than 10%.
  ISBN-10: 0609805797
  ISBN-13: 978-0609805794
  
  
• The Four Seasons of Marriage by Gary Chapman
  ISBN-10: 1414300239
  ISBN-13: 978-1414300238
  
  
• Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud
  ISBN-10: 0310243149
  ISBN-13: 978-0310243144